They demonstrate that they spend time in the gym and that they take good care of their body.Īnonymous and fast - not for long term matingĬompared to straight men, they are more likely to explicitly state that they are “DTF,” that is, looking for sex or a hookup. Grindr guys display their physical fitness and use their good looks. This is done to signal positive information about themselves and their genetic fitness to others. Or they briefly mention how important the gym is to them. They tend to show shirtless pictures with abs, large biceps or pictures taken mid workout. Article contentīut from my observations, the queer men on Grindr use different “costly signals.” Their signals are more likely to be about their physical fitness. This advertisement has not loaded yet, but your article continues below. Manage Print Subscription / Tax Receipt.